Responsible AI Companion Use: Our Policy Framework
This site reviews adult AI companion platforms. Publishing this content means accepting editorial responsibility for how we handle it. Here's how we approach that.
Age Compliance Standards
Every platform we review requires 18+ age verification at registration as a condition of coverage. This is a legal requirement under 18 U.S.C. 2257 (US) and consistent with GDPR minor protections (EU). We do not review platforms that permit minor access or where we identify active verification failures.
Circumventing age verification violates platform terms and applicable law. We do not provide guidance or support for bypassing these protections.
For parents: Adult AI platforms with NSFW capabilities require parental awareness equal to other adult content. Device-level content filters and network controls provide additional protection layers beyond platform age gates.
Content Standards We Apply
Platform coverage criteria:
Required for coverage:
- Absolute prohibition on minor-related content — no exceptions, any violation terminates coverage
- Active content moderation infrastructure with documented policies
- Functioning user reporting mechanisms
- Current compliance with applicable adult content law (2257, GDPR minimums)
Documented negatively in reviews:
- Inconsistent content policy enforcement
- Pattern of unresolved user reports
- Opaque moderation documentation
Reviews are updated when compliance status changes.
Data Protection Guidance
AI companion platforms handle uniquely sensitive data. Conversations often contain personal and intimate details users wouldn't share in other contexts. Before registering on any covered platform:
- Read the privacy policy for post-deletion data retention specifically
- GirlfriendGPT's 6-year post-deletion retention is the above-average benchmark to compare against
- Use unique passwords not reused elsewhere
- Enable two-factor authentication where available
- Share only what's necessary for the platform to function — your real name and employer are not needed
Full privacy analysis: ➜ GirlfriendGPT safety review.
Healthy Use Guidelines
Functional patterns:
- Use is discretionary — no distress when platform access is unavailable
- Real-world relationships maintain priority
- Platform spending fits within budget without creating stress
- Awareness of the synthetic nature of AI interactions remains clear
Patterns worth reconsidering:
- Consistent avoidance of available human connection in favor of AI interaction
- Anxiety or distress when platform access is unavailable
- AI platform spending that creates financial pressure
- Using AI interaction to avoid addressing real-world relationship issues
These are not moral judgments — they're practical indicators that the platform is taking on a role it isn't designed to fulfill.
Support resources:
- SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-4357 (free, confidential, 24/7)
- Crisis Text Line: text HOME to 741741
Editorial Accountability
Our affiliate revenue model is fully disclosed. Negative findings — safety concerns, data retention issues, pricing problems — are published regardless of affiliate relationships. We've published unfavorable safety findings on platforms we earn commissions from. The 3.2/5 safety rating for GirlfriendGPT reflects real concerns, not softened by commercial considerations.
Review methodology: ➜ about us. Affiliate disclosure: ➜ terms of use.
Frequently Asked Questions
No — all reviewed platforms require 18+ age verification. Use by minors violates platform terms and applicable law. We don't review or link to platforms that permit minor access.
No. AI companions are entertainment tools. They can provide a form of companionship but cannot replicate the authentic mutual investment of real human relationships. They work best as a supplement, not a substitute.
Use unique passwords, enable 2FA where available, read privacy policies before registering (specifically data retention terms), and share only what's necessary for the platform to function.
SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-4357. Crisis Text Line: text HOME to 741741. Both are free and confidential.